Crossing This Pond

My Thoughts on Repatriation....

2011-07-11T08:38:00.001-04:00

This weekend, we booked our one way tickets from London to Raleigh and started to clear our home of furniture that we won't be taking back with us to the USA. As I walked through our home just now, I got a bit emotional. But thankfully, I know that this is all quite normal.

A friend of mine, who was an expat in India, shared a book with me on life as an expat just before we moved here to England. One of the things that I learned from that book is that repatriating back into your home country is often more difficult than the move to a new country. In my experience, this is turning out to be very true.

When you are preparing to move to a new country the process is a bit scary, but its exciting, and full of adventure, freedom, and the wonder of what's to come. While away, you experience so many different opportunities that will most certainly change the person that you were. You meet people, you see history, cultures, and ways of life that you have never seen before. And if you're lucky, you are in that new place long enough to officially feel like a "local" and no longer a tourist.

The move home is tough - you are going home to very familiar places and people, but again, things have changed - you know you have changed, but because of the distance and inevitable disconnection with home, you don't quite know how "home" has changed. While you tell yourself you know what to expect, its almost scary to finally KNOW what to expect for a change - the roller coaster of wonder and new experiences isn't as thrilling as it was in your expat country...

I am sad today because I know that this journey is quickly coming to an end, and these two years have been the best two years of my life. Since August 2009, I have been engaged, packed up a house in NC and turned it into a rental property, lived and worked abroad, traveled Europe, prepared to purchase a second home, and married my best friend. If you had told me all of this was in store for me, I would have never believed you.

It's been amazing, and while I am so excited to get home, I will truly miss this place. It's going to be like saying goodbye to an old friend. I know we'll be back to visit, but wow, it won't be easy to say goodbye on August 21, not at all.

I have learned so much about myself and about people, I just hope I can hold onto these memories forever. I am not the person I was two years ago when I took the one-way flight from Raleigh to London, and the return trip will send me home as a new, more confident, more accepting, and compassionate person. It's bittersweet to leave, but I think we have laughed, learned and loved here in more than ever before - there's nothing bitter about that.

The next chapter is quickly approaching, and if the previous chapters of our story indicate anything about future, these next two years will be quite an adventure, perhaps not THIS adventure, but I guarantee you there will be one...or two :)

Things I Have Learned While Living in England

2011-07-07T13:01:00.000-04:00

We are just back from a spending a great 3-day weekend in Vienna, Austria. Vienna is such an easy city to tour, everything for the most part was in walking distance or accessible by their subway system. We enjoyed some great food and did a bit of shopping - if you want to know the details of our itinerary and how we did it just let me know!

On our flight home, I started to reflect on some of the life lessons I have learned during these past two years abroad. Here's my list:

THINGS I HAVE LEARNED FROM ENGLAND :

Mind the Gap - If you have ever been to London, then you know this phrase well - if you have not then google it! Outside of riding the Underground in London, this phrase reminds me be aware of my surroundings and any obstacles that I might encounter. It doesn't mean that we should not take risks or experience adventure, but just that we should be aware of any pitfalls along the way
Recognize When You're KNACKERED and Take a Break - One thing Europeans do very well is balance work and life. For the most part, folks make time to have fun, have hobbies, travel and spend time with their families - I don't think we do that enough in America. "Knackered" means worn out, exhausted, or good for nothing. I have found I am much more productive and pleasant when I balance work and life.
Keep Calm and Carry On - One of my favorite quotes...a wartime quote from Winston Churchill. Its pretty self explanatory, but says so much - just keep going, no matter what is going on around you.
Dance in the Rain - Well, you don't have to exactly dance in the rain, but if you have ever spent a significant amount of time in England, you know that you have to get out and get on with your day when it rains. At home, when there is rain or the promise of rain, we typically stay home and wait for the storm to pass. Here in England, we have learned that if we are going to get anything done, we have to just get out and go, even in the pouring rain! I have actually come to join the rain, which I never thought I would. Our time on this planet is limited, do not delay your productivity and adventure one day longer, even if its raining :-)

We are really going to miss this place, but are truly looking forward to going home soon!

Is This Thing On?

2011-06-23T13:02:00.004-04:00

How is it possible that I have not written anything on this space since January? Here it is late June and I have not once updated this site. Yes, it is pitiful I know...but let me tell you what I have been up to lately, and maybe you will forgive me for my slackness.

I decided a while ago, that I would not sit down and write until I was compelled to do so. I was worried that this site was becoming a laundry list of places I have seen and how to experience some pretty fascinating cities in only a few days. I was concerned that this "laundry list" approach was not only reflected on this site, but also in how I viewed my journey. While the list of places we have visited IS interesting, I questioned whether it was meaningful or not - perhaps it is interesting, meaningful and useful to whoever might read this, I don't know.

Anyway, I just stopped writing with no warning - and believe it or not, I discovered that a few people actually missed my writing - total surprise :)

Since my last post we have done so much - here's an overview of the highlights:

Spent Valentine's Day weekend in Venice, Italy (how romantic is THAT?)
Celebrated our 6-month wedding anniversary in Madrid, Spain and saw Adele perform the song that was our first dance at our wedding ON the anniversary day
Visited Istanbul, Turkey and experienced a 7-star hotel
Seen the Queen of England THREE times (Cambridge, Trooping the Colour, Royal Ascot)
Helped a friend visiting from the USA celebrate her 25th birthday in London
Visited a friend in Florence, Italy, with stops in Pisa and Cinque Terre along the way
Enjoyed a two week vacation in Tanzania - including one week safari and one week on the island of Zanzibar
And we are currently hosting some dear friends from the USA who are visiting and sightseeing for a week.
Next week we are off to Vienna, Austria!

So as you can see its been an extremely hectic, exciting and memorable 2011 so far. I cannot begin to tell you all of the things we have seen and experienced these past several months. Its truly been filled with life-changing moments and an indescribable compassion for people - I think that my compassion for people in every corner of this globe has grown tremendously these past several months.

In addition to all of these wonderful experiences, the past few months have been a reflective time for me. I am absolutely shocked that our two years in England are coming to an end so quickly. I am so sad that this time flew by so fast, because it is something that we often wish would last forever. We have experienced a sense of freedom, adventure and spontaneity that I do not know when we will ever have again - but I do know that we will work together to make sure we keep this feeling a part of our lives and our children's lives, forever.

I have thought so much about everything we have done, and I try to always tell myself to be present in every moment (thanks Oprah), because I do not want to ever forget these memories and I want to make sure that I am fully aware and in every moment with no distractions - its really worked. I feel like I have been a sponge absorbing all of the cultures we have seen, history we have learned, and people's struggles and joys that we have witnessed. Who needs a tattoo to remind you of something when you have the presence of memories?

I am often overcome with emotion because I wish that I could put the experience of these past two in a box and give it to everyone I love (and don't love for that matter). I think we all deserve the opportunity to see the world - how easy it is to travel, how welcoming people are when you visit their part of the world, how much alike we all really are, how "good" we have it America no matter how bad we think it is, how much we can learn from others, how we are all generally good people, and most importantly, how much we can learn about ourselves through travel and openness to other cultures.

I do not know what the future holds for us, but I do know that we have officially been bitten by the "travel bug" (and lots of other bugs in Africa, but that's another blog topic!) and that this is not the end of our adventure. I do know that our children will have the opportunity to explore and see the world before they reach adulthood. I do know that I will continue to share our journey with anyone who will listen, because I know how fortunate we have been and how much it has impacted us and the people who have followed our journey.

This blog doesn't have many followers, and sometimes I convince myself that no one really cares about our journey - but I have to remind myself, and maybe others, that its so much more than places we have checked off on a map - its so much more than that. It's been bigger than that - we have been an awesome team, planned this journey ourselves, and executed our dreams. Its so much bigger than the monuments and historical sites we have seen, its the monumental memories and history we have made together - and I only hope that people see that.

I'll do better about my blogging, I hope you're still reading :-)

A Refresher Course on Change

2011-01-19T08:51:00.000-05:00

I posted a while back about major changes and embracing those changes and whatever may lie ahead. Sometimes, I have to remind myself of that and brace myself for whats to come. A good friend just shared this with me, and it was right on time to help me get on track.

"So often when things change in our lives, we have such a resistance to the change. This is because when people see a big change appearing they are often fearful that it is something bad. But it is important to remember that when something big changes in our lives, it means something better is coming. There cannot be a vacuum in the Universe, and so as something moves out, something must come in and replace it. When change comes, relax, have total faith, and know that the change is ALL GOOD. Something more magnificent is coming to you!"

Hogmanay - New Year's in Edinburgh!

2011-01-14T11:13:00.000-05:00

This post is a bit overdue, but I wanted to share our New Year's Eve experience - we went to Edinburgh, Scotland to celebrate Hogmanay, one of the world's largest New Year's parties. We flew into Edinburgh from London, and it was a quick 40 minute flight. Once at the airport, we took the city's airport bus which provides transportation into the city center.

Once we were checked in and settled we decided to spend our day exploring the city - we started with visiting the Edinburgh Castle, which provided amazing views of the city and beyond, and from there we headed down the Royal Mile to explore. That evening, we headed to Princes Street to view the Torchlight Procession which served as the official kickoff to the Hogmanay weekend - the turn out was great which made for great photos of all the torches!

We grabbed dinner at the Hard Rock Cafe (yes, I know this is so American of us, but we were CRAVING some American style food!), and to our surprise ran into some fellow Americans who live in England - great times and dinner with everyone! That night, the two of us enjoyed the Winter Market in the city centre, all of the sights, and took a ride on the ferris wheel - it was a bit cold but we enjoyed it and took some great pictures.

On New Year's Eve, we toured the Royal Yacht Britannia, did some shopping and rested up for the big night. We enjoyed a great celebration meal at our hotel, and then headed out for the evening. Hogmanay is a huge street party with people from all over the world in attendance, concerts, food vendors, and really excitement and some pretty hilarious people everywhere you look. The big countdown and fireworks show was what we were all waiting for and it did not disappoint - I cannot tell you how special it was to bring in our first New Year as a married couple in such a great atmosphere!

As you might expect, we were a bit exhausted on New Year's Day, so we slept in and toured the Palace of Holyroodhouse, the Queen's official residence while she is in Scotland, and then headed back to London! One thing we did fall in love with in Edinburgh is Thai Orchid, a delicious and very popular Thai restaurant - we ate there twice! We had a great weekend and it was not nearly as cold as we expected, which is always a plus!

Here's to a happy, healthy, and productive 2011! Up next....Athens, Greece!

Viva Barcelona!

2011-01-11T17:40:00.000-05:00

I must say that being so far away from home for the holidays is not easy. Something about this time of year just SCREAMS family, friends and loved ones. It was not possible for us to make it home last month, so we decided that we would again, make the most of our time here in Europe and see a few new places. First on the list, Barcelona!

We spent the three days after Christmas in this beautiful city, and I must tell you that of all the places we have visited and that I have shared with you, Barcelona is one of the places that we would like to visit again (along with the South of France!). The sights, people, food, and just the feeling of the city, is something I really cannot explain...but I will try!

Once we arrived in Barcelona, we headed outside of the airport and took the Aerobus from the airport into the city center. This is an extremely easy and affordable way to get into the city - and the final stop is in Plaza Catalunya, Barcelona’s central square and the starting point of Las Ramblas - the major avenue of the city. From there, we headed to our hotel, Le Meridien Barcelona, and got our vacation started.

Day one was really an orientation day for us - we walked the length of Las Ramblas from Plaza Catalunya onto the Columbus monument and the Harbor. It was a bit chilly, but warmer than the United Kingdom and quite sunny - so we were pretty happy. From the Harbor we headed back towards the hotel and stopped to tour the Barcelona Cathedral. That night we grabbed dinner at La Xina, a Chinese restaurant of all things, right across the street from the hotel - this place is good, and highly recommended.

The following day we headed out to experience a bit of Antoni Gaudi’s architecture. First up - Sagrada Familia - Gaudi’s most famous work, a magnificent unfinished church. There was quite a line to get into the church, but it was worth the wait. We spent time standing inside this work of art in awe - its truly like nothing I have ever seen. From there we took a taxi onto Parc Guell - which I imagine is even more lovely when its warmer - but a great place for views of the city and people watching. At this point, we were pretty hungry, so we decided to try a tapas restaurant that was recommended to us by the hotel concierge, Velodromo Bar. Here, we enjoyed tapas, great wine, and beer - the food is delicious and the waiters are great at recommending dishes for you to sample.

Our final stop of the day was Casa Mila - another of Gaudi’s fantastic works - we toured the apartment, museum and then onto the lovely terrace that reminded me of a Dr. Seuss story. Great views of Pasieg de Gracia can be found at the top of Casa Mila - which ignited our next journey - walking back to our hotel along this main road, and doing some shopping and checking out some more architecture along the Block of Discord. When we arrived a Plaza Catalunya, we decided to walk down Avinguda Portal de l’Angel to see a few more of the shops and sights. We made our way to the popular Granja la Pallaresa, where there was a line of people waiting to get inside! We waited in the quick line and got our seat to enjoy churros con chocolate - what better way to end the day!

Our final day in Barcelona, we decided that instead of going to the Picasso Museum we wanted to walk the city a bit more and see some places we had not yet visited. We sometimes get in museum overload with our travels and chose to see this the next time we come to Barcelona. So, we headed out of Le Meridien and onto La Boqueria Market - such a colorful, open-air market, and then checked out another Gaudi work, Palau Guell - but it was under construction so we could not see much.

We walked along and visited the church of Santa Maria del Mar and the monument behind it. At this point we were so close to the sea, that we walked along the Barceloneta and onto beautiful beaches - it was too cold to swim, but there were people swimming! Still it was gorgeous and gave us all the more reason to plan another trip to this great city. Our final stop of the long weekend was to take the funicular and gondolas to the top of Montjuic, where we walked around a bit, grabbed a snack, and took lots of photos of the amazing views the the city.

What a wonderful way to spend Christmas when you cannot be at home with your families! While we did not see everything we wanted to see in Barcelona, 3 days was the perfect amount of time to see the major sights and get a feel for this beautiful city, and to also convince us that we WILL return!

Baby, It's Cold Outside...

2010-12-20T10:37:00.000-05:00

The holiday season is here for sure, and we know this because it is COLD in England! We got about 3 inches of snow here in Cambridge over the weekend, and although that may not sound like much, you have to understand that England does not have the infrastructure to handle snow and ice. So many flights were canceled this weekend, roads were icy, and trains were stopped. Hopefully, the worst is over as we have trips to Spain and Scotland planned this week.

We didn't make it to York due to the snow, and also because we were both pretty drained. We spent the weekend catching up on some much needed sleep and American television and movies :) It feels so weird that its Christmas and New Year's and neither of us will see our families this season. I think this may be the first holiday that I have not seen my family, and its a bit strange.

We didn't decorate our home, and we didn't buy any presents - but we are traveling - and I am learning that our travel experiences are really worth way more than any gift we could give each other. As we make memories and create stories to tell our little ones (in a few years), I am reminded that the holidays are not about how much money we spend, but how much time we spend with the people we love.

Wherever you are this season, I hope you are with at least one person that you love, and that it's time well spent. Safe traveling and stay warm :)

Awww....Dam!

2010-12-06T11:13:00.000-05:00

Two weeks ago, the USA celebrated Thanksgiving (I will save my thoughts on this holiday for a later post), and we thought we should really make the most of our long weekend here in Europe. So, we packed up a small bag (because we flew easyjet!) and headed to Amsterdam for four days.

You may think that the only reason to visit Amsterdam is for coffee shops and red lights, but this is such a cool city with so much more to offer. And with the the rumors that the Amsterdam government will soon stop selling "coffee" to tourists and that the Red Light District will continue to decrease in size, you may want to plan to see some other parts of the city while you are there.

We flew from London Stansted to Amsterdam's Schiphol airport, a quick 45 minute flight. Upon arrival, we breezed through immigrations and customs and headed out to the bus stops where we caught the #197 bus to Leidseplein. The bus dropped us on the bridge just across from the Marriott, and all we had to do was turn around and there was the Marriott! Luckily our room was available at 9am so we checked in and napped for a few hours. We had been awake since 4am...

Let me tell you about the Marriott in Leidseplein - if you find yourself in Amsterdam, this may be one of the best places to stay. The location was perfect, and everything we wanted to see/do was within walking distance. The executive lounge is one of the best we have seen - great snacks throughout the day and cocktail hour in the evenings, also extremely spacious and well decorated. The staff here are very helpful and the concierge was extremely informative.

Once you are all settled wherever you choose to stay in the area, it really is so easy to get out and explore the city. After you have had enough of the "coffee" and red lights, here are some other places that you should not miss on a long weekend in Amsterdam:

Anne Frank House and the Jordaan Neighborhood
From there, walk behind the house to see the Homomonument and then onto Sara's Pancake House for a quick snack
Head to the Dam Square to take in all the sites, tour the Royal Palace and people watch.
From the Dam, its an easy walk to the Red Light District - many smaller museums are location on this street like the Hash Museum and Erotic Museum.
By now, you will be tired...grab dinner and cocktails and enjoy the night!

Another day, head to Museumplein and check out Rijksmuseum and Van Gogh Museum
From there its a beautiful walk to the Singel flower market and then on to Spui and Rokin for a Canal Boat Tour with Rondvaart tour company.
There's a GREAT sushi restaurant near the river here, I forget the name but it's easy to spot and GOOD!

Your last day, shop in the Leidseplein area and then visit the Amsterdam History Museum
Take a walk to the Begijnhof and then have rijstaffel (Indonesian rice table) at nearby Kantjil & de Tijger.
Hangout in Rembrandtplein
Take in a an improv comedy show at Boom! Chicago in Leidseplein - its great and a taste of "home" with American comedians who live in Amsterdam

Up next...York!

Paradise...

2010-11-24T11:49:00.002-05:00

Can you believe it's been two months since I last wrote anything on this blog?!?! It's a shame...but I have a good excuse. I was back in the United States to get married and then onto Turks and Caicos to honeymoon, so I think I earned the break. I have been thinking about what I would write today, and how much of it would be travel related. I will tell you that Turks and Caicos is a true paradise on earth, and that of all the Caribbean islands we have visited, THIS is the place I would love to return, time and time again. More on that in a bit...

Getting married was the most emotionally filling experience of my life. Of course, there is drama and chaos when planning a wedding, and a to-do list that never seems to end, only grow longer. To top it all off, we planned our wedding (with the help of a fabulous planner) from England! Imagine having to schedule things and pay for things without actually seeing them? Or trusting in other people to do things for you from so far away? It was not easy, but it was an experience that taught me so much.

Here's what I learned:

My husband and I are capable of achieving anything, we are team players, we are supportive and we get SH!T done. We know when the other wants a break, and we know when we need to put business aside for some fun.
Giving up control to someone else and trusting in someone's advice and experience is a relief. We were so fortunate to have a planner, however, it was not easy for me at first. I am, by nature, a control freak and a planner. Letting go and letting someone else manage was amazing for me. I grew from that experience and I will apply it in other areas of my life.
Family and friends are everything. We are so far away and we miss those closest to us more than you will ever know (unless you have lived overseas). Our loved ones are so supportive of us, but it doesn't get easier to hug someone and say "see you later". That good-bye hug is always painful. I always walk away strong (well, I try to at least), but usually cry a little on the long flight back across the pond.
We were so blessed to GIVE that special day to our families and friends. It meant so much to have them there. They gave us their presence, and we hope that we have given them a night they may never forget.
I am stronger than I ever thought I was - we did it!!!
And lastly, I would like to never plan another wedding, ever. It's fun once, and that's all I will say about that :)

Now onto the traveling advice - that is what you came here to read, right? If you ever find yourself with time, money and the opportunity to spend time on Providenciales, Turks and Caicos, then here is what you MUST know.

This place has the clearest, calmest, bluest water I have seen in my life. You have to see it to believe it. I promise.
You have to eat lobster EVERY day, and you must plan to visit during lobster season - it's a rule - I just made it up.
You must try conch salad - don't let the fact that it's raw turn you away - its taste like chicken :)
Take a full day tour with Dream Caicos - snorkel, swim in 7000 ft deep water, dive for conchs. enjoy a secluded beach, have a bbq lunch and then try some fresh conch salad - it will change your life.
Play golf if you like, or while your partner plays golf, go to a spa. Enjoy it.
You have got to eat at these places - Coco Bistro, Bay Bistro, Da Conch Shack (on a Thursday night), Tiki Hut (on a Wednesday), Yoshi Sushi (yes, sushi..on an island), Mango Reef ( the lobster pasta is everything), and Hemmingways
Considering spending your vacation at the Gansevoort, and letting Kalvin be your taxi driver for the week. Stock up on snacks and spirits at the local IGA, settle in, and enjoy.
Drinks lots of rum punch, relax, and take in every moment and every sunset - this is what dreams are made of right here.

Tomorrow morning, we are off to spend Thanksgiving in Amsterdam! Until next time, be thankful!!!

When in Rome...

2010-09-18T16:49:00.000-04:00

So, I will preface this post by stating that its not as insightful or creative as I would like it to be, but I do want to share our 3 days in Rome with you. We just have lots of other big things going on these days....like, getting married in two weeks!! However, if you have 3 days to spend in Rome, I cannot really think of a better way to spend the time - we saw so much of the city and really found everything easy to navigate.

Pre-Trip Planning
We purchased our Roma Pass online in advance and picked them up at the tourist stand in Ciampino Airport - super easy and highly recommended. The experts on tripadvisor.com helped me to plan our 3 days so that we could maximize the benefits of the Roma Pass. We also made our reservations for the Borghese Gallery in advance, over the phone. We did not pay for these tickets, only made reservations - our entry was free with Roma Pass. And, we booked our reservation to the Vatican in advance as well, it wasn’t too crowded when we got there, but it was nice to not have to wait in line. We also downloaded Rick Steve’s FREE Rome Audio guides -these saved quite a bit of money and were useful at most of the major attractions - do this.

Day 1 in Rome

We flew from London’s Stansted airport into Rome’s Ciampino airport. It was an easy flight on Ryanair AND we survived all of the carry-on luggage rules and regulations. Upon arrival in Rome, we picked up our Roma Passes and headed to find transportation. We had every intention of trying the shuttle bus and saving some money, but we were tired, hot, and ready to get to our hotel, so we took a taxi. Before getting in the taxi, we confirmed that the cost to our hotel (Marriott Grand Flora) would be 40 Euro - its the standard set cost, its the law.

We arrived at the hotel, check in, dropped our bags and quickly changed. We grabbed a quick lunch and we were off to Vatican City! Since the Roma Pass covers metro transportation, we took advantage of this whenever possible - we took the Metro to Vatican City and spent most of the remainder of our day there.

In Vatican City, we toured the Vatican Museum, Sistine Chapel, and St Peter’s Basilica. We took the elevator ride and 320 narrow, hot, stair climb up to the top of St. Peter’s Dome for some of the most amazing view of Rome! The stairs really weren’t that bad, but it was hot and the staircase was extremely narrow - I do not recommend this if you are claustrophobic! After leaving the dome, we spent some time in St. Peter’s Square taking in the sites and reading about the history that was surrounding us.

After leaving St. Peter’s square, we crossed the Tiber River and grabbed a pizza and a few beers - we were pretty exhausted at this point. We had planned to go to the Colosseum, but we were exhausted. Instead, we used google maps on our phone and headed to Gelateria del Teatro - we had been told this was THE place to go for gelato in Rome and boy was the walk worth it! We compared all other gelato in Rome to this place, and none of it could top it! The pistachio gelato was our favorite - do this.

After our pizza, beer and gelato we were pretty full and ready to relax a bit. We took a taxi back to the Marriott and hung out for a few hours before heading to dinner. We had dinner in Campo de’ Fiori at Ristorante la Carbonara. The area is quite touristy, but it was nice to people watch while we enjoyed our meal. The food was okay, I think we may have ordered the wrong items - because I hear the place is pretty good. Anyway, we saved room for dessert, because we had plans for that!

After dinner, we walked around Campo de’ Fiori for a bit and took in the sites of the square. Then we started our way back to hotel with Rick Steve’s Night Walk Across Rome as our guide - this walk took us to the following places: Piazza Navona and the Four Rivers Fountain, Tre Scalini Bar in the piazza for a tartufo “death by chocolate” ice cream for dessert, a night view of the Pantheon, Piazza Capranica, Piazza Colonna, the Trevi Fountain, and the Spanish Steps - we took our time enjoying all of the sites, taking photos and really absorbing it all - it was a beautiful night.

Day 2 in Rome

Sunday morning we slept in and then grabbed a small breakfast at a cafe near the Marriott. From there, we walked over to the Borghese Gallery through the Borghese Gardens for our 11:00am reservation to tour the Museum. This was an easy walk from the Marriott - the gardens are just beyond the ancient wall to the right of the hotel. The Borghese Gallery was amazing - we really enjoyed it and it was the perfect size - not too overwhelming. The audioguide was also well worth the cost - definitely recommend this museum - but be sure to make your reservations in advance - lots of people just showed up and had to wait hours for the next available time slot.

After the museum, we took the metro to the Colosseum - when you walk out of the metro stop the Colosseum is directly in front of you - amazing! Getting into the Colosseum with the Roma Pass was a breeze, no line to wait in at all. We used Rick Steve’s audio guide here also, so we were all set. After the Colosseum, we grabbed lunch and then toured the Roman Forums (again with the RS guide) and headed up the stairs to Capitoline Hil. We didn’t do any of the museums here because our time was limited, but we took lots of photos, sat on the steps and took it all in - again.

From here, we headed to the Pantheon - we walked a lot this day. The weather was great and I don’t think we realized how much we were walking because of all of sites we saw along the way. We used the audioguide again here - it took about 45 mins to really “see” the Pantheon and learn about it’s history. There is not a line to enter and entry is free. Easy. After the Pantheon, we grabbed more gelato - when in Rome...

We headed back to our hotel to rest - we were tired - the sun and walking had worn us out. We grabbed a quick nap, and then headed out to dinner in Trastevere - another touristy, lively neighborhood of Rome. We had dinner at Ristorante Checco, outdoors in their covered dining area - this was a great meal, we really enjoyed it and the food was delicious! The pasta was probably the highlight of our meal. We hung out in the area some and took some pretty cool night photos of the Tiber River.

Day 3 in Rome

On our final day in Rome, we had planned to head to the Appian Way and to see the catacombs, but we thought it might be a stretch since we were flying back to London on the same day. Instead, we decided to see some other sites in Rome that we had missed the previous two days.

From our hotel, we walked to the Cappucin Crypt - its in the same area of the Marriott, so this was an easy walk. The crypt, which is below the church of Santa Maria on Via Veneto houses the bones of more than 4000 monks - the bones are “artfully” arranged in various rooms - we could not take photos, but google this place - you have to see it! After leaving here, we grabbed lunch and walked towards the Victor Emmanuel Monument, we took photos here but didn’t go in, we also took some photos at Trajan’s Column and Forum, and then headed to Mamertime Prison near the Roman Forums. We weren’t sure what to expect with their tour, but I am glad we decided to tour the prison - this is where Saints Peter and Paul were once held. It was also interesting to see how structures were built on top of other stuctures over the years, today, there is a church above the prison.

After leaving the prison, we grabbed our final gelato in Rome, picked up our bags from Marriott and took a taxi back to the airport. What a wonderful, educational three days in Rome! The weather was great and while we didn’t se everything, we saw so much and made so many memories! Hope this guide helps you on your visit to Rome!!

A Letter to My 19 Year Old Self

2010-09-03T19:43:00.002-04:00

This post was inspired by a similar letter that a friend of mine wrote to her younger self. At the time, I thought it was a great idea, but I really was not certain of what I would write to younger myself, so I decided to hold off on the letter. And tonight at 12:00am, when I have a flight to catch in 3 hours, I was compelled to write...

Allyson,

You will be turning 19 next month, and there are somethings you need to know.

On Time:

Right now, a year seems like forever to you and you are counting down for the end of each semester. Trust me, you should cherish each of these days of your college life and make memories that will last forever. Take time and get to know more people, don’t just stay close to your main circle of friends. You will be surprised at the awesome group of diverse classmates you have, and you will regret not taking the time to get know them years later.

Soon, life will go by right before your eyes, and a year will seem like only a few months to you. You will see loved ones pass away and learn that you are not invincible the way that you seem to think you are. Protect yourself and your loved ones, because this it, its the one chance we have at life, there are no do-overs.

On Money:

While you may think that signing up for a credit card in order to receive a free t-shirt or meal on spring break makes perfect economic sense, you are so wrong. Be smart with your money, and don’t fall for the schemes that target college students. You will pay for them for years to come.

Practice the importance of having irreplaceable life experiences and not having replaceable things. In the end, you will not look back on your life and think about the shoes you wore or the purse you carried, but you will remember all of the amazing people and places that were a part of your life experience. Never get so caught up in things that you forget to create memories.

On Love:

You are your hardest critic, and you don’t give yourself enough credit. You are much more strong, beautiful and worthy than you think you are. You should try dating people who think this also. Be careful of who you choose to let into your life and how you define love.

Do not expect that people will always hurt you, and do not push away the people who are not hurting you. Trust me, one day, when you have pretty much decided that relationships just aren’t for you, you’ll meet someone who will show you what you truly deserve. True love really is worth the wait.

But don’t worry, everything you are going through, including the heartache, is helping you to learn and grow. It will make you appreciate the real thing, when it finally does come along. Don’t compare your love life and relationship status to everyone else’s - “forever” isn’t something you should rush or force.

On People:

Be prepared for both the good and bad in people to shock you. You will be disappointed and pleasantly surprised by random strangers and friends and family. Try not to judge people. You may think you know what’s going in someone’s life or why they are a certain way, but you really have no clue. Always strive to see the best in people, but strong enough to remove toxic people from your life.

Don’t assume that people are not doing what you think they should or there for you the way you think they should be because they just don’t care. Think about the amount that people have to “give” to you as a glass of water - for some people there glass is full and they have lots of time / generosity to give, they will be very present. For others, there glass is maybe only half full of water or less - they may not have it in them to be the friend of family member that you think they should be - but this likely has nothing at all to do with you. You have no clue what these people have gone through and you should be appreciative of every moment that anyone is capable of giving.

You don’t have to please everyone, and everyone does not have to be your friend. Learn to choose your happiness over other people’s - because most people are choosing their happiness over your own. Know when its time to put yourself first and don’t feel bad for doing it. Also, its OK to say NO to people, and when you do, don’t regret it at all.

Cherish the people closest to you, and make sure that they know how much you love them. The time is now to let them know and create memories with them.

On Career:

You really don’t belong behind a desk or in front of a computer, but you’ll choose a career that puts you exactly there. You should learn now to take risks and follow your dreams, even if those dreams are not immediately as financially lucrative as a more practical career. Most people who take daring risks eventually reap much larger rewards, try it some time. And, try not to always make excuses for why you are not following your dreams - because truly, none of these are acceptable.

You are a people person, you love to travel, you love to help others, and you love to share your story - find a way to do this. No matter what.

On Travel:

You think that you have seen the world now? Just wait. You can only imagine the places that you will go and see during your lifetime! And the best part is...you will get to see these new places and create these new memories with your best friend. Appreciate the opportunities that you have to travel the world, absorb the cultures and always remember that if you wanted to learn more about America, you would have stayed there instead of traveling the world. Live among the locals, eat with the locals, learn about the land and go home to tell the stories. You don't know it now, but you are going to see and experience parts of the world that many people may not ever get to see. Share what you have seen and learned, and let all of this have a positive effect on you. You may not agree with what you see around the world, but learn from it and be moved by the goodness that you will find in people, no matter where you are.

On Health:

Take care of yourself. Exercise and be mindful of what you eat. Right now, you can eat anything you want, not work out, stay up late and not gain a pound. This will all change, be prepared for hard work if you don’t make smart decisions today.

Allyson, you think you have your life all planned out, but be prepared for the twists and turns to come. Someone one day will compare your life and adventures to a roller coaster - hold on, enjoy the ride.

Love,
Your (almost) 29 Year Old Self.

Carolina in My Mind...

2010-07-30T07:31:00.000-04:00

"And I'm going to Carolina in mind...", well actually I really am going to Carolina in the morning - one last time before we go back together to get married. I am thrilled to get home and see my family and friends, but again, I am really going to miss Cambridge because it has become "home" for me now, for obvious reasons. Luckily, this time, my trip home is a week long, and not a month filled with business trips - I should be able to find time to relax and enjoy.

As I was packing for this trip, I started to think about how quickly time flies. Can you believe we are already halfway finished with our 2-year time here in England?! It has been an amazing journey and we have seen and shared so much together. I am looking forward to the year to come - so many good things to focus on when those difficult times present themselves, and I am sure that they will.

This is truly a journey, and as a mentor told me once. "You are about to have the experience of a life time, hold on and enjoy the ride!"

I am holding on, and I don't ever want this ride to end.

See you very soon Carolina.

The City of Light - Paris!

2010-07-23T03:51:00.000-04:00

One European city that definitely requires more than a 3 days visit is “The City of Light” - Paris, France. We spent Saturday - Monday of our July 4th weekend there this year, and it was a great trip, but as with most places we visit these days we wish we had a little more time. Our goal is to see most of the places in Europe we have always wanted to visit, even if it requires weekend trips. And while some may say these trips don’t do the city justice, I really have to disagree! We have had some pretty amazing, educational and exciting weekend trips so far!

Today, I give you 3 days in Paris...

We flew from London’s Luton airport into Paris’ Charles de Gaulle airport - quick 50 minute flight. And while the Eurostar train is a more scenic trip, the flight was pretty fast, and much less expensive than the train. Once we arrived at the airport around 8:30am local time, we breezed through customs and headed outside to meet our hotel transportation. We used parishuttle.com for this. Departing the airport we discovered it was pouring rain outside! Not the best way to start a holiday weekend, but..when you only have 3 days, the rain cannot stop you!

We arrived at our hotel and checked in, but since it was so early, we weren’t able to go to our rooms, so we dropped our bags at the front desk, grabbed whatever rain gear we had (which wasn’t much) and headed out to explore. We headed to Notre Dame on the Metro subway system.

The rain actually proved to be our friend, as I suppose most tourists don’t want to go out in the rain, there was hardly any crowd or line at Notre Dame when we arrived -this quickly changed as soon as the skies started to clear up a bit!

First part of day one included:

Notre Dame Cathedral, Saint Chappelle Cathedral, views of the Siene River and “Love Locks”, Palais de Justice, one of the only original metro stops, flower market, the Deportation Memorial, a yummy Thai lunch in the Latin Quarter and some delicious ice cream from the famous Berthillon ice cream parlor, just across the river from Notre Dame. All of these sites were in the same area and in walking distance to one another. Afterwards, we took the metro back to our hotel (which was very close to the Eiffel Tower) and took in some day views of the Eiffel Tower, and people watched for a while, before a pretty long nap - we were exhausted!

Saturday evening, just before sunset, we headed back to the Eiffel Tower for our pre-booked reservations. We purchased our tickets online for getting to the top of the tower, and saved ourselves from having to spend 4 hours waiting in line! The trip to the top was great, despite a lot of annoying teenagers around us. We enjoyed the sunset from the Eiffel Tower and all of the great views of Paris.

Once we were back on the ground, we were able to see the tower at night on our walk towards Trocadero Place. Here we experienced the most magnificent views of the Eiffel Tower, people-watched a bit as the World Cup celebration for Spain’s victory that same night was taking place, and then found a really cool place to grab dinner and drinks. On our way back to the hotel, while walking through the Champs du Mars, we watched the Eiffel Tower’s hourly light show.

Sunday morning we woke up and headed to Versailles, it took about 30 -45 minutes to get there and as expected the train was packed with tourists. Luckily we had purchased our tickets in advance and only had to wait in one REALLY long line, as opposed to two of them. Versailles is great and we could have spent a whole day here, in fact we almost did. After Versailles, we headed back into Paris and visited Napoleon’s Tomb and the Army Museum.

After a nap, we had a bit more energy and headed back out for the evening. For dinner, we went to Le Relais de L'Entrecote, one of the best places in Paris for steak frites (steak and fries). Be sure to arrive around 7, as the line is crazy and they don’t take reservations! Also, there is no menu! Everyone gets steak frites served in this awesome curry sauce and a salad, your only choice is beverage and how you want your steak prepared - I recommend medium. After a great meal and bottle of wine, we walked towards the river and enjoyed an evening boat cruise. We saw many of the sites we had seen the previous day, but from a different view - very nice.

Monday morning, we checked out of our hotel and left our bags at the front desk. We visited the Louvre and avoided lines using the underground metro entrance. We spent about 2 hours here - and really only scratched the surface. I had been here before, he had not. An art lover could spend 3 days touring the Louvre, but due to our limited time we saw the most popular pieces of art, walked around a bit, and then were on our way!

From the Louvre we walked through the Tuileries Gardens and Place de la Concorde to the Champs-Elysees - Paris’ most famous boulevard. We did quite a bit of shopping on our way to see the Arc de Triomphe, and the walked back down the boulevard for more shopping and a bite to eat. At this point, it was time to head back to our hotel and prepare for our flight to London. We ate again in the Rue Cler neighborhood where our hotel was located and enjoyed the fact that this neighborhood was nowhere near as crowded as most of the places we visited this weekend. We had a few macaroons, and headed back to London - great weekend, and there really is something to be said about Paris, love was certainly in the air :)

Next stop...Rome...stay tuned!

Prague, Czech Republic

2010-07-09T06:13:00.001-04:00

We spent the weekend of June 18 -20th in Prague, Czech Republic, and I wanted to share our experience with others considering visiting this amazing city!

We flew from London Stansted into Prague early Friday morning - flight was great and arrival/customs was a breeze. Upon arrival we stopped at an ATM in the main airport halls to take out some cash, and purchased a ticket on the cedaz shuttle bus that would drop us off directly in front of the Marriott, at Namesti Republiky. The overall service of the shuttle was great, but I will mention that the first shuttle that went past was full so we had to wait another 30 minutes for the next shuttle - not a huge deal, but we were eager to check in and start exploring - sitting outside of an airport for an hour wasn’t ideal, and we probably would just take a taxi to save time in the future.

Upon arrival at the Marriott we checked in, our room was ready, and dropped off our bags. Grabbed a quick lunch in the Marriott hotel and then headed off to explore. Our day started with a walk from our hotel past Wenceslas Square to the Tram #22 stop. This tram is a great way to get orientation to the city of Prague and stops at most of the main attractions and areas of Prague. We rode the tram into the Castle Quarter to the Pohorelec stop. From here, we walked over to the Strahov Monastery and Library, and downhill through the gate to the monastery gardens - this was a highlight of the day and some of the most amazing city views we have seen. After taking in the views we walked along to the Castle Square and then on into Prague Castle, which is more like a complex than an actual castle. Within the castle gates, we visited St Vitus Cathedral, the Old Royal Palace, the Basilica and Convent of St George and the Golden Lane.

Once we left Prague Castle, we found our way down a staircase that led us into Prague’s Little Quarter, and while this area wasn’t full of tourist attraction, it was a very charming neighborhood that did not feel as crowded as it actually was. On our way, we found a great viewing area of the Charles Bridge, down by the water / shore - awesome photo opportunity. In the Little Quarter, we visited the Lennon Wall, where graffiti has been since 1980 when John Lennon was killed. For a long time, police would remove the graffiti every night and it would reappear the next day. This was also a gathering place for peace-seekers in Prague until their independence came in 1989. Kampa Island, Little Quarter Square, and the Church of St Nicholas other places we toured during our time in Little Quarter.

We left Little Quarter by crossing the Charles Bridge, got some great daytime views from the bridge and enjoyed the various performers on the bridge. The other side of the bridge leads you to the Old Town Square through Karlova Street - a zig-zagged, narrow street full of tourists, tourist traps, and marionette dolls. We arrived into Old Town Square with perfect timing as the astronomical clock was just about to strike on the hour, so we joined with other crowds and waited - the “show” was underwhelming, but it was a bit magical as we had a guidebook that explained all of the figures and what each meant. Lucky for us, the town square had a jumbo screen setup in the middle for the World Cup and USA was playing! So we grabbed some food from the street vendors and enjoyed the sites, game and great weather for a while. While in town square, be sure to look for the Tyn Church, the 27 crosses, Church of St Nicolas, and the Jan Hus Memorial.

We were pretty worn out at this point, so we headed back to our hotel, stopping at the Billa Supermarket for some water and other things we needed for the weekend. After quick nap, we were ready to head out for dinner. Our concierge at the Marriott was a huge help and arranged reservations for us at Hergetova Cihelna (recommended to me by a friend) - this place has THE MOST amazing view of Charles Bridge at night! We sat outside, right by the water - our tables we covered which was a good thing since it started to rain, and they also have blankets at each chair in case it gets cool. The food was not the best, but it was definitely a great experience and worth the views. We left the restaurant when it stopped raining and headed back across Charles Bridge into the Old Town.

That night, we took some really cool pictures of Prague and its architecture on the bridge and the while in Old Town - we headed to M1 Lounge and had drinks and hung out for a while - pretty cool spot.

Saturday morning, we woke up pretty early as we were scheduled to tour Terezin Concentration Camp with Martin Tours - we usually do not like to be part of a tour group but considering our short time here in Prague and the distance from Prague to Terezin we opted for a tour because we really could not afford to waste time or get lost! This was a great tour, and it was not too crowded at all - there were maybe 15 people on our tour. You can read much more about Terezin hereTerezin and brought 60,000 Jews here to form a “model” concentration camp. This was the place that Hitler would show in propaganda and to international organizations like the Red Cross to prove that he was not harming anyone. He would also force the Jews at Terezin to be part of propaganda videos, were they were forced to pretend they were enjoying themselves, play soccer, and say that this was a great place.

This is a sobering place and very moving. Some of the areas that we will never forget include:

The children’s museum, where the artwork of the 100,000 children who were held here is stored. Only 100 of these children survived.
The washroom that was used for show, the prisoners were never allowed to actually use it and no water was connected to the sinks.
The shower stalls that were used to fool the Jews - they got used to the idea of communal showers here at Terezin and then when they were moved to Auschwitz they had no clue that the shower stall were actually gas chambers that would send them to their deaths.
The sign above the prison cells reads “Arbeit Macht Frei” - “Work Makes You Free”...
The execution hall and grounds - this was dark, narrow 15 minute walk through a hallway that led to execution grounds - prisoners would take this walk prior to their execution.

I recommend this trip to everyone who visits Prague - Prague is an amazing city with lots to do, but I think we all need to see this so we never forget what happened.

When we returned back to Prague from our day trip, we took a quick nap and relaxed for a bit before heading back out to explore Prague. We climbed to the top of one of bridge towers for a photo-op, and stopped at the John of Nepomuk statue and brass relief on the bridge to rub the “magic” spot and make our one wish - we’ll keep you posted on if our wishes come true :) We grabbed a quick bite to eat, had some Cream and Dream Ice Cream on Karlova street and called it a night.

The next morning, we headed to visit the Jewish Quarter - this is the area where Jews were allowed to store their archives while the Nazis were clearing their communities and sending them to concentration camps. We avoided the lines by buying our tickets to see all of the sites at the Maisel Synagogue instead of the Pinkas Synagogue. We toured both synagogues, Old Jewish cemetery, the ceremonial hall and the old-new synagogue. Perhaps, the most moving was the cemetery. From 1439 - 1787 this was the only burial ground were Jews were allowed to bury their loved ones in Prague. Over 12,000 people have buried here - over time, they have been buried on top of one another as the space is limited - this has led to the shifting of tombstone and the formation of a raised space because of the numbers buried. Also quite moving were 77,297 names of the Jews moved form Prague to Auschwitz to be killed in gas chambers hand-written on the walls of the Pinkas Synagogue.

After leaving the Jewish Quarter, we walked back towards the Old Town Square, shopped a little, grabbed lunch and headed to our hotel where we took a taxi to the airport. Prague is a beautiful city that is full of history - when we found out we were going to be living in England for a few years, of all the places I wanted to visit, I never considered Prague - however, this is definitely a place to visit if you ever get the chance!

The French Riviera - Trip Report

2010-07-01T13:50:00.001-04:00

So, if you follow my blog then you know that we have been traveling quite a bit lately. You also know that we recently visited the south of France for a planned long weekend. However, due to a little SNAFU, our 3-day trip, became a 2-day trip. So, I will start off by saying that you certainly need more than 2 days to do this trip justice, and in fact, even after 3 days you will still wish you could stay longer - this place is just that beautiful.

We flew into Nice, and took the #210 Xpress bus directly into Cannes - this was very easy and comfortable - about a 30-40 minute ride. The bus dropped us off right at the main port in Cannes, and our walk to the Intercontinental Carlton hotel was pleasant with very little luggage. The Carlton is a classic, elegant, historic hotel - it is everything that you imagine a hotel like this would be - great location, rooms and service. We checked into the hotel and immediately headed out to explore as our time was very limited.

Now, many people will say that Cannes is not the best "home base" for a trip like this, and while I can see their point - if you like sandy beaches (and not pebble beaches like Nice has) and you really want to relax - then this is the place to be! In Cannes, we strolled the Promenade, took in the gorgeous views of the beach, grabbed some lunch, stood on the famous Cannes film festival red carpet, and checked out the Port and Old Town Square - that about covers the things to do in Cannes :)

From there, we took a train into Monaco where we spent the remainder of the afternoon and evening. In Monaco, we walked from the station to Palace Square - on the way we saw the Grand Prix de Monaco race track - at Palace Square, we took in some awesome views of the city and sea below us, the Prince's Palace, the Fontieville district, the Cathedral of Monaco, the Cousteau Aquarium (which was built on a cliff, just amazing!!), and the Jardin Exotique - from their we headed back down to the port and checked out the big boy yachts and grabbed dinner. While at dinner, we met a really fun American brother and sister who were touring France and Italy with their parents - we ended spending the rest of our evening finishing our bottle of wine (and theirs) and having great conversation!

Here's the thing -we missed out on seeing the famous Monte Carlo casino - our dinner and conversation took longer than expected and we really were enjoying ourselves! We had to catch the last train from Monaco to Cannes, and weren't able to see the casino - my one regret of the trip really, well that and totally getting our departure airport from London wrong, causing us to miss an entire day! - but a great excuse to go back and visit this beautiful place again!

Once back in Cannes, we were pretty worn out and called it a night. We woke up early the next morning, grabbed a quick breakfast and hung out a bit on the beach in Cannes. After checking out of the hotel, we took the train back into Nice - where we would fly out of later that evening.

Once in Nice, we headed towards the Avenue Jean Medicin, Nice's "main street". We arrived at the Place Massena and took in the sights, the fountains and architecture. What was really cool is that the president of France was hosting several African dignitaries in Nice this particular weekend, and they were having lunch at a restaurant nearby, so security was everywhere and crowds were waiting to catch a glimpse of the government officials. From here, we walked to Cours Saleya, Nice's main market square and then over to the Promenade where we hung out on the pebble beaches, took some cool photos and explored the area. When it was time, we grabbed a taxi and headed back to the airport.

We were exhausted, and we needed more time - but this was a great weekend - and we certainly found a place that we want to see again!

It's Been A Long Time..

2010-06-16T14:44:00.001-04:00

I shouldn't have left you...(you may know the rest!). OK friends, it really has been too long, I know. I am going to make every effort to keep better updates on how things are going, where we are going, and where my thoughts are. So, since I last shared with you, I have been to New York, North Carolina, Las Vegas, Cannes, Nice and Monaco! Yes, it has been exhausting but great experiences along the way.

I won't give too many details on the trip to States, b/c it frankly was not a tourist trip, but I will share this with you - there were times when I was back in the US when I longed to here in Cambridge - I really never thought I could miss this place the way I did. My trips to NY and Las Vegas were work-related, stressful, exhausting and really pushed me to the limit physically and mentally. My time in NC with my family was awesome - but very emotional.

As I am entering my "grown up" years, I am also entering that phase of life where things begin to change - its hard to see parents age and their health not be what it once was, its hard to walk away from someone in the hospital and know you can't see them again for months. It's not easy to get a phone call that your someone you love is being rushed to the ER. But you know what? It means the world to be close enough to rush to someone's side, hold someone's hand, cry with them, hug them, laugh with them - it means everything. I had to go through some things with my family that I really would have rather not experienced, but the fact that I was there to go through it with them and not here in England...it meant so much.

Life will happen whether you live next door to your loved ones or one the other side of the world. I cannot control the happiness and health of anyone I love, no matter where I live. But what I can do is make the moments we have together in person, on the phone, on iChat, whatever it may be, worthwhile. I can make them smile, inspire them, be open and honest with them and allow them to do the same...

Now...that was the USA adventure....from there we move to the French Riviera, a bit less stressful and exhausting :)

For Memorial Day weekend, we planned a trip to Nice, Cannes and Monaco in the south of France. We were supposed to leave on Saturday morning....here's a travel tip for you:

MAKE SURE YOU KNOW YOUR DEPARTURE AIRPORT

BEFORE LEAVING YOUR HOME

Yeah, so....I thought we were flying out of one London airport, and we were actually supposed to fly out of a different one, in the complete opposite direction! We didn't figure this out until we had parked in long term parking, taken the shuttle to the airport and attempted to check-in at the WRONG airport! Yes, it was awful! I wanted to cry and needless to say it was a silent ride from the wrong airport back to our home at 7am that day :) However, we didn't let it stop our trip. We found a one way ticket that left first thing Sunday morning and we spent all of Sunday and Monday touring the area.

Our home base was the Intercontinental Carlton in Cannes (pronounced "can"). Many will suggest you stay in Nice (pronounced "niece") because there is more to do, but if you want the perfect place to do nothing - then Cannes is the place for you! From Cannes we took the train to Monte Carlo/Monaco and also into Nice - very easy to get around in this area and definitely worth a return trip for us since we missed a day :) ** I will post a detailed trip report as my next post for those interested!

Friday morning we leave for Prague, Czech Republic - I think it's going to rain every day we are there - but that is nothing for us these days! When you live in England, rain does not stop your plans for the day! All in all, its been an exciting few months since I last shared with you - definitely some highs and lows, but that's life I suppose.

I am blessed to have some pretty crazy stories to tell these days and thankful that you care to read them from time to time :)

(By the way, I know this really should have been two posts, but I needed to get this update to you in whatever way it came to me!)

The Ash Has Passed! U.S.A Bound!

2010-04-23T07:29:00.000-04:00

Who would have thought I would ever live in a place where air traffic was at a COMPLETE standstill due to a volcanic ash cloud? And...in case you are having trouble pronouncing the Icelandic volcano's name, check out this video. Its been quite a news adventure here in the United Kingdom, but it sounds like the ash has passed, and we can now travel freely again.

I am headed to New York, North Carolina, and Las Vegas over the course of this next month, and while I am so excited to see my family and friends, I really will miss this place. That's hard to admit, considering the mess of a time we have had with the house we live in, getting unpacked, and trying to have all appliances functioning, as expected, at the same time - hasn't happened yet.

It's been difficult because there is a level of customer service, a sense of urgency and the "get in done now" mentality that we have in the States, that really is lacking in the UK. Things take much longer to get repaired and no one is really concerned with our issues, the way we want them to be at least.

There have been days these past few weeks, where it really was not easy or fun at all. There were days when we both have said and thought "What in the Hell were we thinking moving here?!?". There have been days when we forgot about the awesome opportunity we have here and focused solely on the things that were going wrong. Being the ultimate optimist, this is not what I would normally recommend, and sometimes it takes both of us to pull ourselves back on track and focus on all of the amazing things we have going on in our lives (living/working abroad, home finally rented out in NC!, traveling the world together, wedding in 5 months) - there are so many life experiences that we are getting to share together - and we try our best to remember that on those days when nothing here in the UK seems to go our way.

While its been tough some days to adjust, there is no one else in this world I would want to share this experience with, and there is no other place I would rather be than in Cambridge, UK where the plumbing sucks, internet is unreliable and the food can be rather bland :)

I would like to ask whoever reads this blog to remember this on your tough days - it really doesn't matter where we live, or how much $ we make, we each have our WTF days, and its ok to have them and to feel that way. But, its important when those days arrive, we remember the awesome opportunities that have come our way, the amazing people that we are so fortunate to have in our lives, and the funny/sad/adventurous/inspiring stories we create AND live everyday! I, for one, cannot wait to tell our children about our time abroad.

I look forward to my travels over this next month, but oddly enough this crazy place is starting to feel like "home" to me, and I look forward to returning here in a month! Of course, I do hope all the repairs are made before I return!

Safe travels in your daily journeys and adventures :)

Brussels, Bruges, Ghent Trip Report

2010-04-18T15:08:00.000-04:00

Here is a trip report i posted and some photos from our latest journey...my reflections to follow in next post :)

We spent a 3-day weekend in Brussels last week, we loved it! Here is what we did:

Day 1:

We took the Eurostar from St Pancras to Brussels at 620am, so we arrived Brussels very early Friday morning. Leaving the train station was easy, exchanged some pounds for euros, and quickly caught a taxi outside of the station. We stayed at the Marriott in the city center, near the Bourse (see my hotel review for more on Marriott). After arriving, we checked in, took a quick nap, then headed out to explore:

Walking from Marriott, we passed the Bourse, then headed to Grand Place, b/c of limited time, we didn't do any of the museums, but we did spend time in Grand Place using a tour book we had to read about the different buildings (hotel de ville, maison du roi, le renard, maison des ducs de brabarrt, le cornet, maison des brasseurs, maison de boulangers). We also looked to find the swan and fox in the grand place also.

From there we headed down rue charles blus, and rubbed the statue of everard 't serclaes for good luck! After passing the statue, we popped into Dandoy and purchased some biscuits to munch on over the weekend and saw the mannekin-pis. Afterwards, we grabbed lunch, and found the eglise saint-nicolas for a quick photo and also took some photos around the place saint gery. From there, we walked back toward grand place down the rue de bouchers(which is pretty cool) and ended up at the galeries royales de saint - hubert and did some window shopping and went into agora place where we took a photo of the statue of charles buls, had a waffle, and then purchased a smal box of chocolates from Leonidas. i also purchased a lace handkerchief for my wedding day while we were out. after this we were pretty exhausted, we ate dinner later that night at a great argentinean restaurant just off of the grand place, took some awesome night time photos in the grand place and enjoyed the great weather.

saturday - we woke up, grabbed a quick breakfast, and toook train to bruges - we LOVED this day - its worth it, really. after leaving the train station, we walked down the main road and stopped at the begijnhof - this is definitely a place to see, its so peaceful. we walked through the museum which was great also. at the exit, are some great photo ops of the river also.

from there we headed into town, we first went into the Church of Our Lady, where we saw Michaelangelo's Madonna and Child, and some other very nice artwork, this was a nice stop. after this we headed toward the markt. once here, we checked out the belfort, we didnt climb it b/c the line was quite long and our time was limited. we grabbed lunch in at a place around the markt and just took in the sites. we took briedalstraat (the st that connects burg to the markt) and arrived at the burg. we took in the sites here and read about each of the buildings in the square. we walked through blinde ezelstraat and took some more great photos along the river, grabbed a waffle and headed to the train station.

we took the train from bruges to ghent, but i have to tell you that our time in ghent was VERY limited. we walked around some and saw some of the main buildings in the city, but the construction in the city while we were there was horrendous - so many of the paths we needed to walk to get to places were through construction sites, so it didnt make for great photos and i am sure it took away from the beauty of the city. after seeing bruges, we were disappointed, and i am sure also a bit tired - so we took the train back into brussels. that night we grabbed dinner at an italian restaurant called latini in st catherines place - very good food here.

sunday - we woke up and took the subway to the atomium in brussels, we didnt go into the tour b/c our time was limited but it was decent photo op. i think this whole area would be great for children, or if you have more time to spend in brussels, but if your time is very limited, i dont know if i would put it on the must see list.

we took the train back into the city and got off at the parc station, we took photos of the royal palace, walked to sablon and really explored some more of the city streets. we stopped and took photos of the st michael cathedral, grabed lunch, and one more waffle for the road :) we hung out in marriott lounge, ate our waffle and had coffee, then took a taxi back to station to head back to london!

whew! ok, so we did a lot this weekend but it never felt rushed, i really enjoyed bruges and brussels and wish that we would have a better experience in ghent, the construction really doesnt give tourists the best experience i assume.

hope this review helps people out there who are looking to spend a weekend in this cool city!

Welcome to Atlanta, Reminders From Home

2010-03-25T16:09:00.000-04:00

Well, we arrrived safely in Atlanta, Georgia this Tuesday night, and let me just tell you, that it feels SO good to be back in the U. S. of A - and more specfically - the SOUTH! I didn't realize how much I missed this place until we landed. It really felt good to be back around familiar things and Southern hospitality. It even felt great walking outside of the airport - the air is different in the South, maybe?

Little things that were so normal to us when we lived in the States have now increased in value tremendously - everything is cheaper here, people are nicer, the sun shines, and it just feels like home - I never lived in Atlanta - but I believe that living in another part of the world is making me realize how much I love that we get to call America home - no matter where else in the world we may live.

Now, I love living in Europe - I love the newness of everything we do, I love that we can never complain that we are bored, and I love that we get to share this experience together. I have traveled all over the world, but the feeling of when that plane's wheels touch down on a US runway, really, nothing can compare.

I want to share an article with you - something that is somehow related to everything I typed - living in different part of the world can be difficult, but it helps to have small reminders of home to help you adjust to your new surroundings - for example, watching US movies/tv when you can is a great escape. Also, being able to get some type of US food chain, yes, even fast food is now a luxury - it all makes things seem a little bit more bareable on those tough days.

I just read this - Afghanistan military bases have decided to remove "luxuries" like Burger King, Dairy Queen and movie theatres (yes, I use Queen's English now!) from all of their bases. I understand that this is a war zone and not a resort, but those small things probably really are a luxury for those serving there. I know the feeling I get when we are on base in the UK shopping - just being able to purchase things from home that I cannot find anywhere else in England makes me still feel somehow "connected".

Check out the article here

Valentine's Day - And What I Love Most

2010-02-23T12:59:00.003-05:00

This Valentine's weekend luckily fell on a 3-day weekend, so we both finished up with work early and took the train from Cambridge to London Friday afternoon. Once we arrived, we checked into our favorite hotel, the Renaissance Chancery Court and relaxed for a bit. Later that night, we went to the National Gallery, as its open late on Fridays, and grabbed dinner at Thai Cafe in Trafalgar Square. We also checked out the Olympic excitement in Trafalgar Square (2012, London!).

National Gallery

Olympic Ice Sculpture, Trafalgar Square

Saturday we woke up and headed to the Tower of London, and the Tower Bridge - great experience and everyone who visits London should see this place. From there we grabbed lunch and took the tube back to Covent Garden - we had tickets the the matinee showing of "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" starring Sanna Lathan, Phylicia Rashad, and James Earl Jones. What a magnificent production by Debbie Allen!! And James Earl Jones was the STAR of this play! After the play we grabbed dinner at Sopihe's, a yummy steakhouse in the theatre district of the city.

Tower Bridge, taken from the Tower of London

Novello Theatre, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof

Sunday, we took a train out to Greenwich, where we visited the local attractions like the National Maritime Museum, the Painted Hall and the Queen's House. We also stood on the Prime Meridian and set our watches at the most accurate place on earth! We also had pretty good fajitas and margaritas at Cafe Sol - great day, cold, but lots of fun together!

That line in between us is the Prime Meridian, and yes..that is it

Monday, we hung out on Oxford and Regent Streets - and planned our shopping adventure that's scheduled for this coming weekend, and ate lunch at Maxwell's - the best place for chicken wings we have found so far :)

I was reflecting on this trip the past few days, and while there were no flowers, balloons or teddy bears on Valentine's Day - I was surrounded by many of the things that I love - him, a cool city, things I have never experienced before, great food and drinks, and a cultural and historical lesson that I am blessed to receive. It was a beautiful weekend and there is nothing that I would change - not even the times we got lost, couldn't decide where to eat, got caught in the rain, etc - it all made the trip special and a moment of my life that I will always cherish - I cannot wait to see what's next!

Support Our Troops

2010-02-09T08:26:00.000-05:00

Since moving to England a week ago, I have thought a lot about the commitment that our military and their families make for us. I did not grow up in a military family, and I always thought that while I appreciated what our military does for us every day, that I KNEW it was not something for me. And...here I am, about to become a part of a military family! And so far, this experience, has taught me so much about the sacrifices that are made every single day for our freedom.

It seem cliche to type "Support Our Troops" these days, but I don't think we can really overstate this. Over this past weekend, we went to comedy show just off the military base. Until then, I had not yet realized how young some of the people are who serve - some of these kids are not old enough to buy drinks, but are here in England away from everything that they know. I am learning so much right now, but also becoming more appreciative everyday....

I found this poem title "The Military Wife" - I can relate to a lot of this - not the babies, not yet...but its a good poem - check it out:

The Military Wife

The good Lord was creating a model for military wives and was into his

sixth day of overtime when an angel appeared. She said, "Lord, you seem to

be having a lot of trouble with this one. What's the matter with the

standard model?"

The Lord replied, "Have you seen the specs on this order? She has to be

completely independent, posses the qualities of both father and mother, be

a perfect hostess to four or forty with an hour's notice, run on black

coffee, handle every emergency imaginable without a manual, be able to

carry on cheerfully, ever if she's pregnant and has the flu, and she must

be willing to move 10 times in 17 years. And oh, yes, she must have six

pairs of hands."

The angel shook her head. "Six pairs of hands? No way!"

The Lord continued, "Don't worry, we shall make other military wives to

help her. And we will give her an unusually strong heart so it can swell

with pride in her husband's achievements, sustain the pain of separations,

beat soundly when it's over-worked and tired, and be large enough to say 'I

understand,' when she does not, and say 'I love you,' regardless."

The angel circled the model of the military wife, looked at it closely and

sighed, "It looks fine, but it's too soft."

"She might look soft," replied the Lord, "but she has the strength of a

lion. You would not believe what she can endure."

Finally, the angel bent over and ran her finger across the cheek of the

Lord's creation. "There's a leak," she announced. "Something is wrong with

the construction. I am not surprised that it has cracked. You are trying to

put too much into this model."

The Lord appeared offended at the angel's lack of confidence. What you see

is not a leak," he said. "It's a tear."

"A tear? What is it there for?" asked the angel.

The Lord replied, "It's for joy sadness, pain, disappointment, loneliness,

pride and a dedication to all the values that she and her husband hold

dear."

"You are a genius!" exclaimed the angel.

The Lord looked puzzled and replied, "I didn't put it there."

Borrowed from the Black Knight Wives HMM

264 (REIN)

[http://www.angelfire.com/nc/BlackKnightWives/]

you can take the girl outta the country...

2010-02-03T12:01:00.000-05:00

You know how the saying goes! well, this is my first time living out of the US and more importantly living outside of the South!!! I am a Southern girl to the core of my soul and there are so many things I am going to miss about living in the South (southern United States that is, not Southern UK). I was going through some recent photos I took before I left, and came across this one that I took at a local gas station/gambling joint/convenience store in Mebane, NC - my dad frequents this place. Its the kind of place thats both sketchy and familiar ....you know, the place that if you weren't from the area or from the south, you would NEVER even stop and ask this place for directions - but, familiar in that it felt like I had seen all of the store's patrons in similar stores across the south.

If you aren't from the South, you may not have any clue what this is, and if you are...well then, you know exactly what I'm talking about!

Pickled sausage, pickles, pickled eggs, and pickled pigs feet - for sale

Thank You.

2010-01-23T13:47:00.000-05:00

So, this weekend, I am realizing that I am surrounded by love! It may not be in my face every single day, and it may not come in the form of some overt sign, but I do know its there. These past few weeks, and months preparing to move I have often wondered who would I see before I left, who would reach out, how would we say "see you later". What I have found is that it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter HOW they show it...if they want to express their love, they will, and it will be in ways that I really could not have expected, and it means so much.

It means so much to realize that while yes, I do have an inner circle of people who I trust to support and protect me, there is also this network of people that I may not talk to on a regular basis, or see as often as I should. They may live far away, and they may live right down the street. None of this is really relevant, because what I do know is that this network of people is a group of people I sometimes don't think about on a daily basis, and I don't think they think about me everyday - not for personal reasons, but just...because. And while we aren't as "connected" as we should be, thought we would be, or maybe need to be - we are connected.

One week from now, I will be in England, not gone, just in another city. But its so nice to know there are people across this world that love me and that love may be on varying levels, and that love might not show up the way we always thought it would. But it DOES show up, it does make itself present, and I do carry it with me where ever I go (yep, even carrying the love to England!).

Thanks to anyone who has wished me well on this journey in whatever way you have, I truly do feel the love. And thank YOU for reading this post!

HELP HAITI

2010-01-16T01:09:00.002-05:00

I am sure you all have been glued to the news this week, watching the devastating aftermath of the earthquake in Haiti, I sure have. As citizens of the world, most of us have been blessed with so many fortunes and basic things that we often take for granted.

We should all do what we can now, for those who cannot.

Go to www.yele.org to offer your support!!!!!

WTF?!?!?!?

2010-01-16T00:37:00.001-05:00

So, it just hit me, I am MOVING to another country, its not a vacation, its not a two-week visit to see my hunny, its not a study abroad summer, nope I am moving. After speaking to some fellow expats and reading some really great books on becoming an expat (will post links to those) I have learned there are various phases of emotions that most expats experience. I think now that most of the planning is done and the items that were out of my control are now in control, it has all hit me. I was driving the other night and thought to myself "what the hell are you doing?!" Don't get me wrong now, its soooo exciting to be moving with my fiance to England. Its great to know we can explore Europe together, AND work while we're there, but there is so much I am going to miss here.

I'll miss being so close to my family, I'll miss knowing they are only a short drive away from me (even if i don't make that short drive as often as i should). I'll miss my friends, we may not see each other or hang out as much as we used to or as much as we want to, but we understand that life-changes do change our lives - but we are there for each other whenever needed, no matter what!

I'll miss my glam squad!!! Where the heck am I going to get my hair done? Who will do my mani/pedis? Will I find a good spa and esthetician? And whose gonna be my shopping gal-pal?

I'll miss my favorite restaurants, I have quickly discovered the food in UK is not quite what I am used to. I'll miss my gym and my spin class and my spin BFF (hey Jocelyn!).

I'll miss this house so much. It has truly become our home, no matter where he has been stationed - this has always been home. This was OUR first home, we decorated, maintained it, and loved it. We got engaged in this house, we spent time with our families in this house. And while its still ours, we are becoming landlords and another family will be living here soon - we won't be coming to 3067 when we come back to NC to visit....

So many things I will miss and truly I asked myself WTF are you doing...what am I doing? Really?

I am following my heart. I just realized something... I WILL be with my family and my best friend - he is there waiting for me!!! I am going to see the world, experience life and have an awesome story to tell our kids - and I get to do it all with my favorite person in the whole wide world.

yeah, I am a lucky girl...

It's Official!!!

2010-01-10T19:39:00.000-05:00

Look what arrived at my door Friday thanks to Mr. FedEx! Things are really falling into place and I cannot wait to see whats next! Actually, I know what's next - scheduling the moves to pack up the rest of the house, booking my one way ticket to London-Town, and seeing all my friends and family before I cross the pond. I am sure there will be a mix of emotions as this all plays out, but RIGHT NOW - I am blessed and enjoying the ride.

Fingers Crossed....

2010-01-04T19:35:00.000-05:00

So...as of a few days ago, the fate of my Visa is in the British Consulate's hands. I completed all of the required documentation, financial requirements, employment verifications, etc. and overnighted everything to my immigration officer. This is it! I should know something soon...

This is a thrilling moment - I cannot believe that all of these things might actually fall into place...

You know how you have dreams, big dreams, that you don't think will ever really happen, but its nice to dream about them? You know the feeling when those big dreams actually unfold right before your eyes?

Yeah...2010, here I come.

Change, Anyone?

2009-12-18T20:55:00.000-05:00

So this is it...my life as I know it, is about to change in every way possible, and I could not be more excited, thrilled, nervous, worried, anxious, frazzled than I am right now. Over the past several months, I have become engaged, began planning the wedding of my dreams, changed roles at my job, and found out that my fiance was going to be stationed in England for the next 3 years!

So what does this mean for me? It means that I am holding on tight and preparing myself for the ride of a lifetime, and I hope you will join me! My job is transferring me to our London office (thank you for that!), my hubby-to-be is already living in the UK, and we are turning our home here in the States into a rental property! It's been a hectic few months as I am sure you can imagine, but all the change has really allowed me to dream again and to not get stuck in the routine of the daily American lifestyle.

Right now, my current stress is securing a UK Tier 1 Visa so that I can continue to work while in England - my company is sponsoring this - but there is TONS of paperwork to be collected, signed, filed etc! We are just at the end of this collection phase and very soon, I will be shipping my immigration documents and application off to the UK consulate - with this shipment, I will say a small prayer and allow myself to exhale...

I promised myself I wouldn't start this blog until the move across the pond was certain...stay tuned for what's to come!